Taking the Cost and Stress Out of Your Child’s Party

By SaveYourSelf.biz My mother and I have this running debate over parenting. She says I over parent, that things were simpler for my parents when me and my siblings were coming up. I feel like I parent just the right amount, somewhere between helicopter and free range—closer to free range. Children’s parties are an areaContinue reading “Taking the Cost and Stress Out of Your Child’s Party”

Holy Cow!

By SaveYourSelf.biz $2,457.55. This is the amount my household spent on food in ONE month this year. I couldn’t believe it. I was chatting with my husband, probably about food, when my Mint app notified me of my monthly expenses. Leading the pack: Food. That is an embarrassing figure. To put this into perspective, thisContinue reading “Holy Cow!”

At Home in Maryland But Homesick for the Road

By SaveYourSelf.biz Cleveland, Ohio. Rochester, Minnesota. These are the last two cities I visited before COVID-19 shut down my travels for more than a year. I visited Cleveland for work. I traveled to Rochester to visit family. That Rochester trip was in February 2020. On March 16, my company transitioned to remote work. For theContinue reading “At Home in Maryland But Homesick for the Road”

Putting Your Money Where Your Values Are

By SaveYourSelf.biz Say it loud I’m cheap and I’m proud Yup, I’m cheap. And I completely own it. When I was younger, my mother would jokingly—at least I hope she was joking—call me a miser and say that I was going to save all my money, die and then someone else would spend it. Ouch!Continue reading “Putting Your Money Where Your Values Are”

Show and Tell: Talking to Kids About Money

By SaveYourSelf.biz Here is a recent exchange I had with my 11-year-old niece via text: Niece: Can I borrow $20? My Cash App is XXXXXX. If you have the money. Me: Hey, did you get the $35 I sent you last week? (She had borrowed money the previous week.) Niece: Yes. Me: Well, if youContinue reading “Show and Tell: Talking to Kids About Money”

My 6 Rules for Lending Money

By SaveYourSelf.biz Over the years, I have floated several loans to my family and friends. I feel thankful that I am in a position to help out when I can. However, it can be difficult to maintain relationships with people who owe you money.  I created these rules based on my experiences with lending moneyContinue reading “My 6 Rules for Lending Money”

Welcome: About SaveYourSelf

By SaveYourSelf.biz Fact:We encounter professional women every day who express fear, anxiety or denial about their finances.  Fact:There’s a significant pay gap between men and women. Throw in women of color and that gap widens even further. Fact:We often live longer. SaveYourSelf wants women like you to take charge of their finances. Have the courageousContinue reading “Welcome: About SaveYourSelf”